Sunday, March 2, 2008

Getting my groove:)

Henna art its so fun and lasts about 2 weeks.

Hello to you from The Gambia:) It is March and in 8 days my three month challenge will be over and I will be a seasoned volunteer. It's really crazy getting dropped off in the middle of a country and the place/village that is to become you new home without being a little freaked out. Especially since you don't know a soul, don't speak the language and you are the only "toubab" (white person) for kilometers around.
Note: Being a toubab in The Gambia immediately makes you into a celebrity, everyone knows your name, wants to be around you and talk to you so you are NEVER alone and always noticed where ever you go.
There was a big bush fire right outside my village. Everyone had to run out and beat/back burn so it didn't reach the village.
Bush fires are common in the dry season and can be dangerous. This one burned all day and throughout the night and covered hundreds of km. However they are not as devastating as the ones back home because they are never managed, they are left to burn and so its apart of the bushes ecology. Almost all fires are started by careless people.
My mom sporting my sun hat, Yaya my bro, Howa (spozen) and her boy Mahamabo.
I've realized that 3 months is my (or maybe most peoples) perfect time for me the find my groove. My language (Mandinka) is more fluent, I've made friends and acquaintances, I’ve gotten to know my family better (they still kick ass), explored the wuloo (the bush) around my village and within biking distances and had a few adventures.

My work is coming along slowly but surely. PC tells us that our busiest time will be during our 2nd year because your relations are stronger, language is functional and you have a better idea of what projects will be successful. I've started working but nothing major with the park because that seems like a very sensitive job and I want to feel it out a little more. There is a very fine balance between success and "failure" here.

My lunch, rice and fish. Its really really good. Howa is my cook and she always makes delicious food for me. It just that there is ALWAYS rice.

I've started an Environmental Club and the grade school in Dumbuto. It has 35 members in grades 5th and 6th. One day a week I teach a class in environmental science then we go out for an afternoon for a few hours and apply the lesson concepts. It’s a blast and the kids really love it.

I've also joined the kafoo or women's group in the village. They are the wives, mothers, gardeners, rice farmers, caregivers and overall glue of the family. All the women are strong, fiery and amazing to be around. We all meet once a week under the big Silk Cottonwood tree and discuss issues in the village like gardening, market, marriage ceremonies and naming ceremonies.

Kafoo meeting.
As for the park some things are getting done. Repairs and rebuilds are in process and I'm mainly trying to learn how the park is REALLY run, getting to know the rangers and working on small projects like painting park signs, organizing and cleaning the library and "research office", and other small but needed tasks.

Weekly Luumo
I go very week to buy my weeks worth of fruit, veggies and peanuts
Sometimes I get fabric and get cloths made
I still spend most of my time hanging with my family, visiting other compounds and exploring the area. I get together with my site mates a few times every month and we go to the luumo (weekly market 7 km away), go on a hike or just visit. I'm very lucky because I have 4 awesome site mates and I love them. Note: a site mate is another PCV that live close to you. Some PCVs only have one. So I’m never lonely.
My site mate and good friend Kat (with her cat).

Yeah some of the things I've had to deal with lately is the 110-125 day temps and scorpions in my house. They tell me that the sting of a scorpion will make the toughest man cry all night. I hope I don't get stung.

OK signing off for now. Know that I am happy and still healthy and doing very well:)

OXOX


5 comments:

Anonymous said...

ber my dearest,i have been so freak'n amazed by how the both of our lives are goin lately. i wonder in what ways we will differ when i see u again. (still morbid thinkin that)i get so excited when u call in the mornings i still haven't figured the time diff but all in good time. b-day is tom an it will be laid back one 4 sure but thats ok.i hope u get all the contents in ur next package i put some thought in it toward special u the three of us are getting ajusted to us being a family unit and we all seem to love each other alot more, im boggled @ the closeness toward our family the baby has brought me, wish u were here to be involved also. luv u * i've been . . is odd to try an put into words how happy i am, no doubt mommyland is the best thing i never realised i wanted*but to think of myself personally is odd when the baby is always top priority. i thought id be Xtremely stir craze but sky has been Xceptional just being here i cant image what things will be lik when he wrks on sun.. I finally got my license today an the car sky purchased me to drive is outside it needs a tiny bit of wrk still but just being able to get some where will dramatically help keep rachael an i at our happiest level possible.i dont know how people are able to take there babies on the bus, logan is really demanding an a fighter already even when hes just hungrey, i wouldn't be able to go anywhere bus wise w/ him the time span would interfear w/ eating times and i'd be on the bus or a busy street and really wouldn't wanna drop out a big boob an try to feed a lil milk vamp w/ arms flailing all about any how i'll ring ya after ur back from camping.*** luv my ber. *** all the damn days* every damn day.

Anonymous said...

howdy ber! im real suprised no one else has left a comment 4 u.more space for me! i finally got ur letter an card and let me just say they were just lovely. i realsise u dont have good coffee an tea and would love to send u some do you need a french press 2? things are goin pretty good here i just was at dads for his b-day yesterday an had brock an amber and dad had some lady an her kid over he seems lik such a christian playa some times most of the time we were watching old family videos of us @ universal studios and disney land i finally got vindecation on why captain hook made me cry and its on video that he pulled my hair! what a dick eh?i saw mom pregnant w/ brock 2, what a trip she looks so beautiful. mom is alright l8ly... she sounds happy an thats all that matters really,but im sorry 2 say, she has the bug again an moved out of her place... what the frick right. shes been staying @a mobile/camp site in lincoln city biteing her time untilm she can decide whether to move to california or arizona, for the sun.but she told me to tell u not 2 worry so don't m m m k. well the baby is doing great lately except he's been really needy about being held all the time which i love doin unless i'm trying to take a shower or cook food or pretty much any thing else requireing 2 hands, i have been taking him on the bus during the wk if his deminor is good 4 the day any he's been passe d out in the sling which he digs and i dig not having to take him in a stroller everywhere, i have on but its not really all terrain. i hope u got that package or that u get it soon i want u to see what is looks lik (an angel). i'm doing fine 4 the most part i still feel lik i'm bleeding 2 death but things i'm not to proud of are helping take the edge off nothing scary just coffee an i've been good about only smoking one cig a day i hope i stop this soon. i haven't smoked herb more then a hit i feel 2 guilty to do some thing recreational for my entertainment that might possibly affect him i'm taking him to sat market if its nice and plan on picking u up a present yeah!i cant believe how much room i have to type still. so did any one tell u ethan has diabetes im sure someone did, well he looks great he gained 20 pounds since we found out and he slooks great and more lik his age . and not a gaingly shriveled boy i'm going to call you now an hope i get though i'd much rather tlk to u an typing is getting old luv u*

Kelly said...

Hi Amber!
I'm really glad that I got to meet you the other day. My friends and I had a wonderful time in the Gambia. Thanks again for the water :-)

Hope you're having a great time and feel free to contact me (especially if you ever come to Dakar).

Your 'toubab' friend,
Kelly (Morgan and Debby say hello too)

my e-mail:
kriegel@indiana.edu

my blog:
kellyinsenegal.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

whats up ber?! its brock.been real busy. just moved in w/ amber, its nice but difficult. works steady, i just got ur letter. africa sounds really exciting and adventurous, u remind me of a super hero, an when i read ur blog its lik reading a jane goodall article but ur jane goodall and u make it more exciting to read, an alot more personal. i wish i was there w/ u and we could experience the same things. i'm really proud of u. i miss u, and being around u. it feels more lonely since you've been gone. i went to the hospital the day after logan came out an held him, and i told him what u told me to tell him, that my big sister wanted to be here but she's in africa.its a trip that lisa's a mom, thats also exciting i have a nephew, i mean another nephew ha ha hehe whoops.but since i've been dating amber i've been more in a father figured planet, and i see things differently but i'm the same and emotion i cannot describe and logic i don't understand. um but its fun because i get to teach cash about life and i see a kids perspective, most of the time i feel lik a kid again.i'm goin to get a phone card today w/ lisa and i'll try calling u. whats ur favorite dried fruit? cuase i'll get it. i will try to write u a letter soon and then, from then i'll write every month. love u, cant wait to hear what u write next.

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